tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post9070403148569313315..comments2023-08-21T05:38:09.942-04:00Comments on Falling for Baby: Getting RealSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14109435826887215070noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-7992794353747519192010-06-27T21:49:19.438-04:002010-06-27T21:49:19.438-04:00I can't imagine what you're going through,...I can't imagine what you're going through, but I seriously can't judge you for thinking of just "leaving" for a couple days. There have been times that I've wanted to leave Gianna for a day with Hubbs because of being stressed & I'm not even in the same situation as you!<br /><br />I hope things get better & I'm still praying for you everyday.Mrs.Fhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18288965051178440995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-88548687943293125422010-06-22T21:56:21.384-04:002010-06-22T21:56:21.384-04:00OMG she is so stinkin' cute at the library. Se...OMG she is so stinkin' cute at the library. Seriously, that little girl melts my heart and I know she melts yours. All the stress... well, I'd be shocked if you weren't freaking out all the time. Being a parent in and of itself is the most difficult thing on earth. You are doing a great job! I'm glad you'll get to talk through it all with someone. But until then, grab another margarita. ;)SFNewzGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06484677104072778483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-62587475250959161612010-06-20T19:11:00.154-04:002010-06-20T19:11:00.154-04:00I'm so sorry that you're struggling with s...I'm so sorry that you're struggling with so much right now... I can't imagine being in your shoes, but if I was, I hope I'd be able to handle it like you are. It's okay to be scared and to worry - hell, Addison is healthy and I'm in therapy and on meds because I am constantly having anxiety attacks about something awful happening to her! No, the therapist won't clean your house or fold you laundry (but it would be SO nice!) but it's amazing how much it helps to unload that burden to someone, talk through it, admit how hard it is, and come up with ways to cope. I hope you give it some time and try it out - it takes time and getting used to the person your seeing but it's so amazing to be able to say what you could never (or would never) say to your family or friends for fear of judgment (at least that's what's nice for me...) I'm sorry this is so long and we don't really know each other but I have followed your blog for awhile and just know that I'm thinking about you and pulling for you. Hang in there...Opheliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09651360212514363230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-73505436371415510092010-06-20T10:46:38.080-04:002010-06-20T10:46:38.080-04:00I just found your blog,its beautifully written and...I just found your blog,its beautifully written and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.<br />I hit a real hard spot a while back and I didnt do anything about it till it got to the point that I was feeling quite ill and the anxiety was awful.<br />I got some talk therapy and that opened my eyes to how much I had kept bottled up and that I wasnt quite as strong as I thought.<br />It was the best thing I ever did and I am at a place with Lucy 3 in october where I enjoy life with her so much without the constant nagging worry about everything from shopping trips to therapies.<br />I think what I am trying to say is ........it does get easier and having a little help gets you there quicker<br />SallyAndrew,Sally,Megan,Daniel and Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01376454810331205416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-20109440966936109152010-06-18T19:55:35.726-04:002010-06-18T19:55:35.726-04:00Oh, and I was going to write the exact post about ...Oh, and I was going to write the exact post about the grocery store and wondering how long it will last, etc. I was just talking about this yesterday.Ali Foley Shenkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15709138823428425783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-62652104079077597222010-06-18T19:55:02.058-04:002010-06-18T19:55:02.058-04:00I get it. You know I do. :/
Medication is most d...I get it. You know I do. :/ <br /><br />Medication is most definitely not the end of the world. If you needed glasses to help your eyes, you would get them. If you needed to wear a brace to support your knee, you would. It's the same thing with anxiety/depression meds. And I'm a big, big fan of therapy. I started going (again :)) when Dean was 6 months old and it's been so helpful for processing this whole ordeal. Kudos to you for being honest with yourself. Would love to chat about this anytime if you want.Ali Foley Shenkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15709138823428425783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-59208256412322062692010-06-18T00:12:11.763-04:002010-06-18T00:12:11.763-04:00I second what Anon said, you get THROUGH it, even ...I second what Anon said, you get THROUGH it, even if it's just day by day. You make everything work and you ARE creating the best life for Lillian. If you feel like you need to talk to someone, I would totally encourage you to. You have alot on your plate and some type of release/outlet would be great for you. For you to be the best momma you can be, you have to take care of yourself too. You really are doing a great job, Sare.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15321307434915264238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-30587755763556114342010-06-17T23:39:59.813-04:002010-06-17T23:39:59.813-04:00I get where you are coming from with the anxiety a...I get where you are coming from with the anxiety about it all. Since Lucy was born, I've started a low dose of Zoloft - and it really has helped my anxiety. I never wanted to take it or to talk to a therapist - but both have been very helpful. Basically the therapist reminded me that we are stressed out for legitimate reasons - we have big issues that most don't understand or have to face. That helped me not feel so guilty or weird about it. I only saw her a few times but it was helpful just to know I wasn't crazy. I think that in my head its like I have to be supermom so its hard to accept help.Isaac's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14364104252643983830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-11046266756893437442010-06-17T20:47:10.527-04:002010-06-17T20:47:10.527-04:00I know you don't think you're handling thi...I know you don't think you're handling this well, but you are. You are working through it and processing all of it every day. It's A LOT to handle and it is not easy. You do need therapy and you also need more help from your community - church, family, friends. Ask for it. You deserve it and so does Lillian.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-59112058489692782162010-06-17T15:16:54.352-04:002010-06-17T15:16:54.352-04:00(((hugs)))(((hugs)))Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02894064837290739195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-22434157064398569052010-06-17T09:25:20.922-04:002010-06-17T09:25:20.922-04:00I can only imagine the kind of responsibility you ...I can only imagine the kind of responsibility you have had to take on with Lillian but I do have to say that I am amazed by your strength. You are a wonderful mother and Lillian is so lucky to have you. I think its great that you find therapy in your blog, gardening and etsy and its okay to maybe need a more formal form of therapy. You might not even need something everyday but something p.r.n. for the days where the anxiety takes its toll would be good. I hope that you find what will work for you even if its a day on the lake with a couple of margaritas :-)bethany & andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03331484924754422156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-21923387450828406622010-06-16T23:49:11.529-04:002010-06-16T23:49:11.529-04:00I love how open you are, how raw your post is. Do ...I love how open you are, how raw your post is. Do that often. It is therapy of sorts.<br /><br />I LOVE hearing everything about Lillian and well you too. Sounds like she is having a great week. You on the other hand, I wish I could be there. Just to sit and talk.<br /><br />Someday, much love. Always here for you!<br />MandeeMandy H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10555952727464981376noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-41429378780802867442010-06-16T22:48:37.556-04:002010-06-16T22:48:37.556-04:00Your honesty is endearing. It sounds like the wei...Your honesty is endearing. It sounds like the weight of it all is finally taking a toll on you. You can only be strong by yourself for so long before you start to crack. I'm here for you as alwaysAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13536683370164720232noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-494614934984144614.post-44980163743353812122010-06-16T22:22:58.856-04:002010-06-16T22:22:58.856-04:00hey...i don't imagine how it is like living in...hey...i don't imagine how it is like living in your shoes, but i do know what it feels like to have meltdowns and feelings of " i can and SHOULD be able to hack this." and you know...I couldn't. i HATE the bottle of pills (i'm on lexapro) but it really has helped with my anxiety and allowed me to feel like myself. i can't wait until i can get off of it and was extremely reluctant in the beginning, but it has helped tremendously. you're not alone. and you won't be alone. thank you for being honest and vulnerable. you're a strong woman and you can handle this with a margarita in one hand and bows in the other! :) oh and with little lillian roaming around at your feet. hang in there and don't be ashamed to get some "happy pills". it doesn't have to be a long term thing. :) :) :) :)Laura Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03016494211615762804noreply@blogger.com